The facts about dating and mating

Every beginning is hard and every start is quite a hurdle. For a long time, I had been wrapping my head around what to blog next. I had a few ideas about word economy but decided not to write about it, since it was to dynamic and there was too much data to comprehend in order to make heads or tails of it. Gosh! The next idea was writing about Slovenia, because is often confused with Slovakia, or if you ask somebody,  they will most likely answer: “Yeah I know, you are from Yugoslavia”. This is particularly the case with older generations. Like computers need an upgrade, these people definitely need it too. However, if I were to write about this, it would not be so intriguing. I could put a lot of effort into it and it would turn out to be boring.

Then it hit me! Why not write about something mainstream, popular, something that everybody could relate to and is one of the greatest boosts of motivation ever known to mankind. Ladies and gentlemen, I present you the science of sex: the truths about dating and mating proven by science. If there are any romantic souls reading this and want to retain hope, please LEAVE IMMEDIATELY, FORGET THAT YOU HAVE STUMBLED ON THIS AND NEVER LOOK BACK.

For those, who are still with me, I will say only this:


The cool quote above is from Dante’s Inferno. It is so appealing that I just had to use it. What I am going to write from now on will show us (men) in a pretty bad light :/. Okay, let’s roll already, baby!

Nasty facts about men:

Men want more sex than women, I think this isn’t hard to guess, and we are likely to hit on girls with big boobs, and often the main reason why men kiss is to lead towards sex. Furthermore, the reason why men cuddle (after sex) is to get more sex.

If I read the upper lines again, they describe us men as total sexual maniacs… sex, sex and more sex x). Maybe this isn’t so far from truth. Perhaps this was posted and written by a crazy women who got dumped dozens of times and every time she writes a sentence down, she shouts:”Bastard, asshole, schwein, prasec, moron! Your race will pay”

Nevertheles, here are the articles which allegedly support this fact:

Are men more likely to hit on women with larger breast?

Do men really want sex more than women?

Do men and women kiss for different reasons?

Why men cuddle?

The next facts have some numbers in them and are quite funny:

How much does a guy spend on an engagement ring? The younger the woman, the more he spends.If a guy didn’t have to impress his woman, he would probably never leave the couch. Statics show that man are as likely to cheat on their wives as they are to experience a flight delay.


Here are the links:

What would men do if they didn’t have to impress women?

What determines how much a man spends on an engagement ring?

Is a married man as likely to cheat on his wife as he is to experience a flight delay?

I think this is enough about us. Let us move on to the opposite gender. Women can also be b****es.

These are the following facts:

A happy, modest, unselfish guy is a turn-off and women are more likely to be attracted to bad boys. The fact is that women prefer jerks. They also find married men more attractive than the ones who are single. Having an expensive, flashy car and throwing money around makes men more attractive to women.


Here is the proof:

Does having a high-status car really make a man more attractive to women?

Young Women’s Dating Behavior: Why/Why Not Date a Nice Guy?

What gets a man more one-night stands?

Nice guys finish last.

I am not sure about t the extremity of this, but these are the facts. What can you do about it? If you take another aspect into account, you might find a potential fault in genetics and evolution. Gentlemen are an extinct species, right?


NOOooooo, in my opinion, this is not true. Maybe for one-night this can be very handy and rises your chances, but for more than that , you have to be on the same wavelength. The appearance can  be quite deceptive. The odds of meeting a crazy person are quite high. I have read on the internet that a women stabbed a man just because he did not want to be her boyfriend afterwards. If you are decide to have a fling , think before you act or try to :D. To sum up, you could say that men are focused on looks and women on status. One gender focus more on physical attributes, where as for the female gender gives more importance to attributes regarding men’s reputation. According to science this is all to produce healthier offspring and safer financial future. Okay than, the instincts, impulses and subconscious patterns control us who we favour or who we are attracted. This is true, but in the end you always decide how to react on them or what you want to do. Again, you can’t blame genes for your action or the enviroment, you are alone responsible for the action you choose. Long live the free will.

P.S. If you want to find more about subconscious pattern,  have an article about.  You can check it out here 😀

If you have any questions, just comment below.

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2 responses to “The facts about dating and mating”

  1. HarryPotter says :

    Pa ni to že staro?

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